Friday, July 31, 2009

The BIG News

Remember on my post a while ago, titled The Purpose of It All, I mentioned that the feel and purpose of this blog would be changing. Maybe I downplayed that a bit. So much more than the purpose of this blog is changing. Also changing, is the purpose of my life. Our life.

Taher and I have big news to share. We are expecting!

But not in the way that most couples are expecting. I am not pregnant. I will not give birth in 9 months.

Taher and I are adopting a baby.

We are both over the moon, happy and excited about this. Ever since I met and fell in love with Taher, I knew that someday I wanted to parent with Taher. A few months ago, we started looking into adoption, but it was really just a dream, and we didn't do much with the dream. Then a few weeks ago, we sat down and seriously discussed adoption, and decided to fill out an application with an adoption agency. A few days later, we were accepted by the agency, and have now started the home study process.

I know I'm probably throwing out some terms that you are unfamiliar with, but do not worry. . . Through this process, I will blog frequently about the process, and what each step of the process means. :-D

Taher and I thought long and hard about where to adopt from. At first, our hearts were really set on adopting a baby domestically, but through a lot of research, we realized that the best option for us as a family was an international adoption. I am going to attempt to keep the country we are adopting from anonymous on this blog, but if you are interested in where we will be adopting from, do not hesitate to send me an email, as I would love to share our country of choice with you. I just don't want to mention it on this blog. So, if you are aware of the country we are adopting from, please also refrain from mentioning it via comments on this blog. :-D

Taher and I also had this beautiful button created. I have attached it in this post, and it is also on the side of my blog. The code is attached to the picture on my sidebar, so if you have a blog, please feel free to put this button on your blog to show your support. If you need help doing this, just let me know, and I can walk you through the process. :-D

We also had this beautiful button created. The code is also attached on the sidebar in case anyone wants to put it on their blog.

I just want to say again how excited Taher and I are about the decision to grow our family through the gift of adoption. It's amazing how deciding something like this can put the heart at so much peace. That's how I feel right now. Peaceful. And I am excited to meet this future child of ours. I know that Taher and I have so much to offer a child, but more than that, I know how much a child has to offer us.

I hope you all follow our adoption journey. On the side bar, feel free to click on join this site and become a regular follower. Adoption can be a long and difficult journey, and we would appreciate all the thoughts and prayers you can offer.

I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you. John 14:18

31 comments:

Anonymous said...

The new blog looks brilliant baby!

M said...
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grandma said...

Looking forward to your journey - waiting and watching.

grandma said...

Looking forward to your journey. Grandma

Anonymous said...

This is amazing news! I am so happy for you guys and am so excited that you will be blogging about the experience. I will be following you guys every step of the way. I hope the process goes smoothly.
Liam

Anonymous said...

Congrats!

Anonymous said...

Leah,
I'm excited for both of you. Parenting has been the hardest and most rewarding thing in our lives. God has used it to shape me into the image of Christ as much as being married. I feel your sense of anticipation. DM

Anonymous said...

OH MY GOSH! This is not what I thought the happy news was, but I'm really happy it is. Congrats! I am so happy for you guys, and I can't imagine better people to adopt a child. :)
Kelsie

Unknown said...

The new blog looks great! Congratulations on your decision to adopt. I will be following your journey and excited to hear updates.

Anonymous said...

Congrats L&T!!!

Very happy for you both. :)
- Marie

Anonymous said...

Congrats on the adoption plans. Can't wait to follow your journey and hear more about this process as it's something I've been curious about. Best wishes.
Jenna

Jenny said...

congrats on making this decision!!!! i look forward to learning more about you guys and following your journey to your baby!!!!

Michele said...

So beautiful!! I cant wait to follow each step!

Anonymous said...

I am just so thrilled for you. Awesome new blog!

The Busters said...

The new blog looks amazing!!! I am so grateful that we will be able to support each other as we go through this process!

Sig said...

I am so very happy for you!! Adoption has changed my life for the (much) better. The experience left me with more faith than I ever had.
If you need to talk (or vent) when things get tough, you can always EM me, I have been through it all.

Sig said...

PS- my adoption blog is private but if you get bored you can read through it, just LMK. :) it's it truly a roller coaster ride, but I won the lottery in the end with my amazing baby girl!
SA 3 at aol. com (no spaces)

Chelle said...

Yay! The announcement has offically been made! The new blog looks awesome. I am excited to join you on this journey. This is an exciting step in your life, and I am glad I get to be a part of it. I am a follower, I put your button on my blog, and I will get to painting your vase ASAP. :)

Big hugs!

Deb said...

Thanks for stopping by my blog.
How exciting to be able to watch your process from the beginning.
Adoption is a wonderful path to parenting. I know you'll learn a lot along the way, not just about adoption but about yourself and your spouse. It's a great ride!
Looks like you have lots of friends and family cheering you on already.

Anonymous said...

I am really happy for you guys and can't think of two better people to do this.
Lisa

Anonymous said...

So happy to hear about your decision to adopt. I can't wait for you to have that baby in your arms!
Lisa from MH (mlb1234)

Rachel said...

So excited for you as you begin this very exciting journey!!!

Lindsay said...

Congrats on your adoption plans....what a joy it will be when you have your child in your arms. The long process will be worth it. Being a mom is great!

Marian said...

Hi Leah, I came across your blog by another adoption blog. We too have adopted and God has provided every step of the way!! I look forward to reading your journey~it is the most rewarding, challenging, happy, frustrating, and excited journey you could ever take. Hold close to Jesus dear friend. Stop by anytime if you have any questions!

Hillary said...

The blog is fabulous, and I am so happy you got so many comments from friends and family. :) Yay!

Anonymous said...

Congratulations!!!

I'm sure this will be an amazing adventure!

Paula

Anonymous said...

Congrats Leah and Taher! This is so exciting! I CANNOT wait to follow your journey!
Jill

Anonymous said...

Congratulations!!!!

Anonymous said...

Awesome news. If you ever want to "talk" let me know.

Jennifer Porter said...

Just came across your site. How exciting that you two are going to adopt! We are adopting an older child from the foster care system. It has been such a pleasure thus far (aside from all of the paperwork!!!). I know the two of you will be blessed on this journey and I hope it is a quick journey for you.

Deni said...

I'm excited to follow your blog as my husband and I just recently decided to adopt too!! We're planning on domestic and veryyyy excited! I had only one suggestion for you on fund-raising, do some sort of food sales, like a chicken dinner or something, those do so well, or bake and sell stuff (if you cook or bake). I did that for a fundraiser and it was fun and effective (you can get stores to donate lots of the supplies!!). Just a thought, I hope you get all the support you need!! Deni