Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Musings from a Temporary Stay at Home Mom

I'm back to work.  My company shuts down between Christmas and New Year's, and it was amazing to get that time with my kids.  I can't imagine anyone else I would rather spend my time with.

Let's go back a bit.  First there was Christmas.  Christmas was nice, but TT came down with a nasty cold Christmas Eve Day, and her mood was not good.  She didn't feel well, was extremely fussy and clingy, and this made everything a bit more difficult.  But, it was still nice being with family.

This year, we let the kids have their first candy canes.  They were very impressed by this thing called candy.





This next picture pretty much sums up TT's mood.

Being a stay at home mom is very hard.  Women who do it are nothing short of amazing to me.  And I have to say, staying home with my kids for the week was more fulfilling than my corporate job will ever be.  Staying home was also easier for me than juggling a career and motherhood.  I got to sleep in a little later because I didn't have to get up and shower and look presentable.  I didn't have to quickly feed the kids breakfast before rushing out the door.  I got to go at a slower pace.  I got to do laundry throughout the day.  I was able to scrub floors daily during naps, and organize spaces. 

Granted. . . I only stayed home for a little over a week.  Perhaps if I did this on a daily basis, I wouldn't sound so optimistic.  But I enjoyed a week of not having to answer to anyone except my 1 and 2 year old.  I enjoyed getting to spend so much time with them. I enjoyed having a clean house. I enjoyed planning daily outings with the kids.  We went to indoor gyms, a winter holiday party, we swam, we went to Target, we went on playdates.    It was all amazing. 

And now I'm back to work.  I'm grateful for the job I have, and the income I need.  I'm grateful for the opportunity that I was given to spend so much time with my kids, and I look forward to the next opportunity.

I have so much more to say, but will save it for another day.  A little someone turns a year and a half on Friday, and that deserves a post of it's own.  And someone got some news at the doctor yesterday that has me worried.  I need to find the blogging routine again.  Soon. 

And a few more pics.





2 comments:

Debbie said...

It is so nice for a "working out of the house mom" to appreciate what the "don't work outside of the house on a daily basis mom" do everyday. I have two school aged kids, and a 3YO. They all have to get up, dressed, fed, hair/teeth brushed and out the door every morning - all with dragging little brother. Two days a week we dash from one school to another so little brother can go to his school. You think things can get accomplished, but they want to cuddle, play games, or just want you in the same room. It's not all bon-bon eating and soap opera watching. It's having them on great days, and cranky days. It's dragging them around to run errands, or keeping them occupied at home. I love it, but it is the hardest job I have even had!

Erin said...

Happy New Year Leah! I'm so glad you enjoyed your week home with the kiddos and it looks as though you had a nice family Christmas. The pictures are so cute!