Thursday, June 24, 2010

Don't Go Anywhere Nur. . . Baba and I ARE coming

Yesterday our agency called to let us know that all the paperwork needed from Nur's region of birth have been received. That means documents can FINALLY be submitted to court and we can FINALLY get a court date. Right. . . Nothing is that easy. Now it turns out they also need colored copies of our passports, and THEN we can get a court date. I can handle that. Things move quickly when they are in my control instead of Ethiopia's. T and I are on this, and these copies of our passports will be on their way across the ocean shortly. I have no doubt about it. I am still VERY hopeful that we'll get a court date before the courts close. WE CAN DO THIS!!!

When we started the adoption process, I sped through the paperwork because I was ready to be a mom. . . now. I knew the quicker I was with the paperwork the sooner I'd get a son. Now, the quickness I possess is something very different. I have seen Nur. He's my baby. My son. Now my quickness isn't just for me. . . it's mostly for him. It's because I know the best place for my baby boy is in our home. I know that it's with me and his baba, and his baby sister that will be here shortly. I want him home so he can feel the love of a mother and father. So he can know what it's like to be loved and held, and hugged and kissed. I want Nur home so he can meet his Grandma and Grandpa, and his Nana, and his Gidu. So he can meet his aunts and uncles, and his 3 girl cousins who can't wait to play with him.


Although I'm scared out of my mind to be a mom to two babies, I feel a sense of urgency like no other to start parenting Nur. To get him everything he needs in life. He's my son. And I'm completely in love with him.

23 comments:

Jenny said...

yaaaay! this is super exciting!!! so glad you're moving again!!! yeah, we had to send in copies as well... something to do with new documentation to prove you are who you say you are when you go to court now...

Anonymous said...

Your love gives me chill bumps!

Breen said...

YAY for paperwork arriving. I hope you get your court date soon and Khalil will be home real soon.

Trinity said...

HELLO, GOOSEBUMPS! :)

Wow, Leah. Both of your babes are almost here! *girlish squeals* :)

Andrea said...

oh it's so hard to be on this side of the waiting. I was the same way with the paperwork...getting it done. The hardest part for me was waiting for everyone else to get their parts in place.
Hang in there momma, the time does come when they are in your arms.
Blessings
Andrea

Anonymous said...

WOW!!! How crazy is it that both of your babies are on the same timelines for arrival, it seems!

You have been on such an amazing journey! I just discovered your blog last night (through Tammy's blog) and I just wanted to introduce myself. Your journey is amazing and fascinating and I am really looking forward to following along with you and seeing you get to hold those babies in your arms!
~Lacie

Christy said...

Yay for paperwork finally getting finished up! It's amazing how much faster we can get a mountain of paperwork done than a gov't. agency! Hope Khalil is home soon!!!

Leah Maya Benjamin said...

woo hoo! how exciting, I mean its always something but at least it something you can do. I hope you can get your courtdate, soon! send those pictures next day for a few hundred dollars. Can't wait for more good news.

roy/elisabeth dean said...

Yay! I wish I lived closer and could help you out with some of this running around and red tape! 1 month from now your blog posts are going to be hilarious! I can't wait to read all about your life with "twin" babies~ you might as well start stocking up on Boost now! And pampers~ What a blessing to have both of your babies together....I know you're so excited!
Will check back often for updates. Have a beautiful Thursday~
♥,Lilly

A said...

How exciting! Can't wait for your family of four to be together :)

Raising Davis Darlings said...

It won't be long now!! Then you can dress him in those cute cover alls you have waiting and ready for him. :)

Kelly said...

We had to send in the passport copies as well! So glad to hear that progress is being made, as slow as it may seem. Hang in there!

Deb said...

Well that's good news. Court closes in October right?
Praying you get that date before then. It's all in God's hands and it sounds like very soon you'll be holding both your children in your arms.

birthmothertalks said...

I hope he gets to come home soon. Being a Mom to two babies will be hard but it's double in the rewards of smiles, kisses and baby cuteness.

Jewls said...

Oooo, I am just SO EXCITED for you guys!! 2010 is definitely the best year yet! :)

Michele said...

YAYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Great news!

Amy said...

So glad you finally heard some news and things are moving again! WOOHOO!! :)

Deni said...

That's good news!! So ready for your babies to be home with you--NOW! Kahlil is a blessed little boy to have such sweet proactive parents ready to do whatever it takes to care for and love him!!!

Kala said...

Exciting!!! It does work must faster on our end then it does their's. Can't wait to see when the court date is!

Andrea said...

He is yours and I can't wait for you to wrap him in your arms...his Mother's arms.

And, its okay to be afraid, but you will navigate every inch of this path with grace and love...so, FEAR NOT :)

HUGS

Mandy @ The Party of 3 said...

:) Get them copies sent across the ocean!! If you wasn't almost 9 months pregnant you prob would have tired to hand deliver them suckers!!:)

Chelle said...

Just more stupid red tape getting in your way. I love that you cut through it all with a machete.

It has got to be so tiring being told you can't jump yet when you are so ready. Gah! Stupid courts and regulations and changing of regulations.

You will get your court date soon, and I can't wait to see the ticker at the top of your blog, counting down the days until you bring your beautiful son home for good.

BrandiB said...

So glad to hear things are moving along! I hope you get that court date soon!!!!